.. death

.. death, and a very bad way to start off the morning writing a blog of this topic. My deepest condonlences to my friend for the passing of her mom yesterday morning. I have lost those dear to me before and i share your grief and sorrow.

.. it would be difficult to cope for this lost, death leaves a void where used to be occupied by love, tears and laughter. A friend's lost is my lost too, it brings a surge of emotions flooding and numbing all my senses .. fearing the thought .. of how i would feel, if i am in her place ..

.. love is what made us human
.. grief made us human
.. tears made us human
.. laughter made us human
.. we are so fragile

.. how often you found yourself ignoring everything else around you when you laugh or cry .. or cuddled with your loved ones ? Every single subtle pulse of his of her heartbeat fuels your desire to live on, doing everything you could, sacrifices, remembering every pulse of your shared life with your loved ones .. and your family and friends.

.. how do you define life, if you do not share it with another ?
.. but how do you define life,
if you have lost another which you share life with.

.. to me, what matters most is what happens in between,
.. what matters
.. is what happens in between life and death
.. in the end, it would not matter to you

.. in the end, it would matter to those who loved you
.. the least you could do,
is to leave them with something meaningful

( .. in memories of those dear to me )